Baptism & Weddings
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New Life in Christ
Baptism
Baptism marks the beginning of a lifelong journey of faith. Through this sacrament, we are born into new life in Christ and become members of the Church. The Catholic Church teaches that parents are the primary educators of their children in the faith. Our baptismal preparation is designed to support and guide parents and godparents in this sacred responsibility.
We encourage expectant parents to contact us even before the child is born so we can accompany you from the very beginning with the necessary guidance and preparation.
What to Expect:
Baptismal preparation classes are required for parents and godparents.
Classes are offered regularly in English and Spanish.
We’ll guide you through requirements, godparent selection, documentation, and scheduling.
Baptism for Infants (Children under 7 years of age)
How to Begin:
Families must be registered with the Catholic Church to begin the baptism process.
If you are already registered at our parish, you may:
Pick up a full baptism packet at the Parish Office.
Or request one by phone at (760) 757-3250
- Also you can contact us by email.
Baptism for Children Over 7 Years of Age
- Children over the age of 7 enter into a different process of faith formation before being baptized. Please contact our Religious Education Office for more information.
New to the Parish?
If you attend Mass with us but are not yet registered, you can register online here.
- New parishioners must wait 4 months from the date of registration before scheduling a baptism.
Registered in Another Parish?
Please obtain written permission from your home parish to celebrate the baptism at Mission San Luis Rey.
Scheduling the Baptism:
Baptism dates and preparation class dates will be scheduled from our available list once a completed packet is submitted.
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When should I contact the parish to schedule my child’s baptism?
We recommend reaching out at least 1–2 months before your desired date. Expectant parents are encouraged to contact us even before the baby is born to begin preparation in good time.
Do parents and godparents need to attend a preparation class?
Yes. Both parents and godparents are required to attend a Baptism Preparation Class, which helps them understand the meaning of the sacrament and their role in the child’s faith formation.
What are the requirements for godparents?
At least one godparent must be a practicing Catholic, confirmed, and in good standing with the Church. If there are two godparents, they must be one male and one female.
Can the baptism be celebrated in Spanish or in a bilingual setting?
Yes, we offer baptisms in English, Spanish, and bilingual celebrations when available. Let us know your preference when you contact the office.
A Covenant of Love and Grace
Weddings
Wedding Preparation & Guidelines
At Mission San Luis Rey Parish, we are honored to walk with couples preparing for the Sacrament of Marriage. Whether you are a long-time parishioner or visiting our historic mission, we are here to support you as you begin this sacred journey.
As a Catholic and Franciscan community, we joyfully congratulate you on your decision to enter into the sacred covenant of Matrimony. This moment marks a beautiful beginning in your shared journey of love and faith. Please know that our entire parish family is holding you in prayer as you take this sacred step, trusting in God’s grace to guide and bless you both.
At Mission San Luis Rey Parish, we believe that preparing for Marriage is more than planning a ceremony—it’s preparing for a lifetime of unity, trust, and spiritual growth. Our marriage preparation process is intentional, pastoral, and rooted in the life of the Church. Couples begin this journey at least one year prior to their desired wedding date.
Your first step is simple: contact our parish office to schedule an initial interview. From that moment on, we will accompany you—listening, guiding, and supporting you through every stage of preparation.
Getting Started:
All marriage requests must begin with an initial intake meeting with a pastoral team member. This is required before setting any wedding date.
Preparation must begin at least six months prior to the desired wedding date.
You will be assigned a priest or deacon to guide you through the marriage preparation process.
Couples will take part in the FOCUS Inventory and/or meet with a sponsor couple as part of their preparation.
Required Documents:
A recent Baptismal Certificate (issued within 6 months of the wedding).
Affidavits of Freedom to Marry (completed by parents or close family/friends).
A valid Marriage License, submitted at least two weeks before the wedding.
If widowed, a death certificate of the former spouse.
If previously married in the Church, a church annulment must be granted before setting a date.
If previously married civilly, a lack of canonical form must be declared.
To make a payment on a scheduled wedding:
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How far in advance should we begin marriage preparation?
Couples must begin their preparation at least one year before the intended wedding date. This ensures time for meetings, retreats, and completion of all documentation.
Do we need to be registered parishioners to get married at Mission San Luis Rey?
Not necessarily. Non-parishioners are welcome with the pastor’s approval.
Can we choose our own priest or have a family member officiate the wedding?
Yes. If you wish to invite a visiting Catholic priest or deacon, they must receive approval from our pastor and submit a Letter of Good Standing at least three months before the wedding.
What marriage preparation programs are required?
Depending on your situation, you may be asked to attend a Catholic Engaged Encounter, the FOCCUS Inventory, and a Diocesan Retreat. Our team will guide you based on your needs.